The feeling of love is something percepted by anyone who can feel this emotion. Woman constantly are telling themselves that they're not good enough to be loved, to love or to share the feeling of love. Why is it that woman feel so bad about themselves? The thought that a man who sleeps around is given a thumbs up although the thought of a woman whose slept with more than 5 is an absolute slut. This just goes to show that the way women are looked at hasn't changed.
Woman sell their bodies, use their bodies to sell things or use their bodies to attract the same or opposite sex. A lot of woman feel as though they have to degrade themselves to feel beautiful. That they feel like they have to dress differently, act differently; change themselves to get the man that they want. Woman push themselves so hard to get the type of man they desire. They feel like they have to be stereotypical for the man to like them. The beautiful blond girl that is not very smart that's just nice to look at.
Today, I heard with my own ears that men look at the girl covered in makeup, dressed in the skimpiest dress and the highest heels before he looks at you. The natural girl, with little makeup and a classy outfit. You don't have as much attention drawn to you, and it looks as if you may be too high of a standard for him. He goes for that other girl because she looks easy, but why does it always feel like the "slut" the boys look down on always go for them. Yeah, a quick orgasm is nice; but at the same time don't people want love and compassion?
I hate the way the media portrays women. They make you feel like everyone has to be a size 2 and be blond and beautiful. No one is really what everyone looks like on TV or in a magazine. They airbrush, paint and change so many things on there. That's what every girl feels like she has to live up to, the playboy bunny look. If men didn't find them sexy they wouldn't look at it. We feel like we have to look like that but most of us don't have that kind of confidence. We want to be sexy, but when the time comes down to it you don't feel like we can be.
I struggle constantly with my level of confidence. I always worry if I look fat or ugly. What size these jeans or dress makes me look to other people. I think every girl struggles with it but what makes us feel like this? The people throughout our lives that make us feel this way. The snide comments that we receive as we grow up, and the vile things that people say to us using technology. Everyone has had something mean said to us at one point in our lives, and it hurts. No one likes to have something negative said about them, but there is no way stop it. Whether someone is jealous or that is their actual thought it's nothing anyone wants to hear.
I hate that things become so difficult when you begin to feel so bad about yourself that you feel self conscious in front of people you should never have to worry about. For example; your husband, your family or your close friends. They should accept you, and a lot of them do but some don't. Everyone has to deal with it in their own way.
Woman sell their bodies, use their bodies to sell things or use their bodies to attract the same or opposite sex. A lot of woman feel as though they have to degrade themselves to feel beautiful. That they feel like they have to dress differently, act differently; change themselves to get the man that they want. Woman push themselves so hard to get the type of man they desire. They feel like they have to be stereotypical for the man to like them. The beautiful blond girl that is not very smart that's just nice to look at.
Today, I heard with my own ears that men look at the girl covered in makeup, dressed in the skimpiest dress and the highest heels before he looks at you. The natural girl, with little makeup and a classy outfit. You don't have as much attention drawn to you, and it looks as if you may be too high of a standard for him. He goes for that other girl because she looks easy, but why does it always feel like the "slut" the boys look down on always go for them. Yeah, a quick orgasm is nice; but at the same time don't people want love and compassion?
I hate the way the media portrays women. They make you feel like everyone has to be a size 2 and be blond and beautiful. No one is really what everyone looks like on TV or in a magazine. They airbrush, paint and change so many things on there. That's what every girl feels like she has to live up to, the playboy bunny look. If men didn't find them sexy they wouldn't look at it. We feel like we have to look like that but most of us don't have that kind of confidence. We want to be sexy, but when the time comes down to it you don't feel like we can be.
I struggle constantly with my level of confidence. I always worry if I look fat or ugly. What size these jeans or dress makes me look to other people. I think every girl struggles with it but what makes us feel like this? The people throughout our lives that make us feel this way. The snide comments that we receive as we grow up, and the vile things that people say to us using technology. Everyone has had something mean said to us at one point in our lives, and it hurts. No one likes to have something negative said about them, but there is no way stop it. Whether someone is jealous or that is their actual thought it's nothing anyone wants to hear.
I hate that things become so difficult when you begin to feel so bad about yourself that you feel self conscious in front of people you should never have to worry about. For example; your husband, your family or your close friends. They should accept you, and a lot of them do but some don't. Everyone has to deal with it in their own way.
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